Live With An Unloved Husband

2023 Author: Madeline Holiday | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-24 11:49

I wonder if you would start living with an unloved person who annoys and annoys you with your behavior, a person for whom there are no more feelings, and all this is only in order to preserve a social unit, that is, your family? Location: Location:

Most of the inhabitants of Russia do not agree to live with their ex-spouse or spouse because of the common children. These data were obtained by the All-Russian Public Opinion Research Center as a result of in-depth verification analyzes. At the same time, about 1600 people were interviewed in 140 cities from 42 constituent entities of the Russian Federation.

Among other reasons that are a way of preserving a broken marriage, Russians note: deterioration in the health of a spouse; not fading feelings of one of the spouses for the other; total living space or real estate; fear of being alone; fear of losing a source of income; pressure from relatives, friends or any other religious precepts and instructions.

You understand that, in principle, the husband is not such a bad person, although you have no real love for him. The main thing is that there is no other way out, except for living together with her husband. And therefore, for months, despair and melancholy do not leave you from the fact that for a very long time you will have to be with him under the same roof. Despite the fact that he is a great person, but definitely not your "soul mate".

And if you clearly understand that the presence of this person next to you is hard for you, then there is only one conclusion from this. You should limit the time you spend with your own husband. Think about it less. That is, decide for yourself that you are absolutely indifferent to your husband, and start building with him, oddly enough, human relations. How to do it?

First, see your husband as a work colleague. Secondly, do not try to hurt him and wish him evil. Third, show a genuine interest in your husband's business (professional success, health, and hobbies). Fourth, if, after all, your husband made you a nuisance, then do not react too violently. Try to benefit from this, for example, a gift.

Fifth, do not quarrel with his family and friends. Sixth, try to understand the motives of all his actions in order to control him non-intrusively. Seventh, take care of your husband, as his appearance tells others what kind of wife you are. Find out his taste and sometimes try to please with something, that is, do something for him with your own hands. For example, embroider his initials on his clothes, or tie a scarf for him. But first, be sure to consult with him in order for him to enjoy it.

Eighth, do not be afraid to compare your husband with others and be sure to notice in him not only shortcomings, but also advantages. Ninth, do not feel sorry for yourself. In addition, time will pass, and perhaps you will realize that life with your man is not the worst option, and it could be much worse.

And finally, always remember that you are the main thing. Therefore, set aside at least an hour a day for yourself to take care of yourself and not think about your husband and your relationship with him at all.